{"id":10018,"date":"2012-06-06T12:36:37","date_gmt":"2012-06-06T10:36:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.debatrix.com\/nl\/?p=10018"},"modified":"2021-11-15T17:25:38","modified_gmt":"2021-11-15T16:25:38","slug":"hoe-kom-je-ertussen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.debatrix.com\/nl\/2012\/06\/hoe-kom-je-ertussen\/","title":{"rendered":"Hoe kom je ertussen?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hoe krijg jij het woord bij praatgrage sprekers?\u00a0Je kent het wel, zo iemand die als-ie eenmaal aan het woord is niet meer te stoppen is. Jij zit te hopen op een stilte waar je in kunt duiken om alsnog aan het woord te komen, maar nee hoor. Er komt werkelijk van \u00e1lles voorbij, maar g\u00e9\u00e9n stilte.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-10020 size-full\" style=\"border: 0;\" title=\"blabla\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debatrix.com\/nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/blabla.png\" alt=\"tekstwolk met bla bla erin\" width=\"200\" height=\"162\" \/>En de tijd tikt maar door&#8230; Hoe kom jij ertussen?<\/p>\n<p><!--more-->Een effectief middel is om simpelweg de naam van je gesprekspartner uit te spreken &#8212; &#8220;Ronald?&#8221; &#8212; en daarna een korte pauze te laten vallen. Het noemen van iemands naam is vaak al genoeg om hem uit de &#8216;zend&#8217;-modus te halen en meer te laten luisteren.<\/p>\n<p>Zo cre\u00eber je zelf de ruimte om jouw boodschap over te brengen of een vraag te stellen waarmee je het gesprek in de door jou gewenste richting stuurt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hoe krijg jij het woord bij praatgrage sprekers?\u00a0Je kent het wel, zo iemand die als-ie eenmaal aan het woord is niet meer te stoppen is. Jij zit te hopen op een stilte waar je in kunt duiken om alsnog aan het woord te komen, maar nee hoor. 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